April 6, 2018 at 1:53 p.m.
Vocations group adds laypeople to team
But as she scanned the column by Bishop Howard J. Hubbard, in which he described his own vocation and his hopes for the new team, she realized something was missing.
The team members -- Rev. James Walsh, Rev. Thomas Konopka and Sister Kitty Hanley, CSJ -- were "the most wonderful people, and all the things they were doing were wonderful," Mrs. Berkery said. "But we also need to take a look at our families."
Family touch
As a mother of four, a former catechist and a teacher at St. Gregory's School in Loudonville, Mrs. Berkery knew that most parents don't speak to their children about the idea of a religious vocation. She's helping to work on that problem by becoming one of the first laypersons to join the diocesan Vocation Awareness Council.The council was originally composed of representatives from religious communities in the Albany Diocese. Then some diocesan priests joined.
Eventually, Sister Kitty said, the 30-member council became a "combination working group, support group and idea group." But today, the council is widening its circle to include lay men and women.
"Lay people are doing massive ministry" in parishes, explained Sister Kitty. "They very well might be the ones people would go to" when exploring an interest in religious life.
Expanding the team
When the idea to add laypersons was first proposed, several members of the council agreed to ask someone who had regular contact with men and women in the Church."We want people who share that theology of vocation: How does God want you to live joyfully and generously?" Sister Kitty said. "We want people who are in touch with the contemporary Church."
Most of all, she declared, "I don't ever want vocations work to be crisis-driven or desperation-driven. A crisis mentality can lead to, `We'll take anybody we can get.'"
Chance to contribute
For Mrs. Berkery, a parishioner of St. Ambrose Church in Latham, joining the council was an opportunity.Vocations are "something I've thought about for years, in terms of the `parent part' of this process," she explained. "We need to educate parents and families to have that interest. I don't know of any parents that right now are encouraging their children to go in that direction, and I'm speaking as a person who's very active [in the Church]."
As a teacher, Mrs. Berkery makes it a practice to mention religious life to her students. But "that still could not compare to what a parent could offer to their children," she said.
Positive light
When she read the Bishop's column in December, she noted that he worried about parents' not seeing religious life as happy. "If we could do anything that could replace that positive image...." she thought.One of Mrs. Berkery's first steps will be the creation of a children's book on the priesthood. If a child wants to be a firefighter or police officer, she said, parents can buy a book on that career. But very few books are available on religious life.
Mrs. Berkery hopes to write about a local priest's childhood, letting kids know that he once had a paper route, got in trouble and played baseball -- just like them. She noted that it's important for children to get to know people in religious life as "real people."
She quoted a parent who told the National Religious Vocation Conference, "How about priests and religious inviting families to their place for dinner? Why is it always the other way around?"
"What they were expressing in that was, `We need to have some interaction. Children need to have some interaction'" with clergy and religious, Mrs. Berkery said.
Making a difference
The laity on the Vocation Awareness Council will do some of the same things the other members do: giving talks on vocations at parishes and distributing materials like the "Call and Response" vocations booklet.Mrs. Berkery is excited to be a laywoman and parent who will be part of the Vocation Awareness Council. "It can't always be from the top down. It can't always be priests and sisters who are encouraging vocations," she observed. "If the people in the pew don't share that concern, that's 99 percent of the people!"
(To find out more about the diocesan Vocation Awareness Council, call 453-6670.)
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