Thinking of Dad in Iraq

I have grown up in a Catholic family and have always made God a part of my life. Although my faith has always been a major priority in my life, I never really knew how much of an impact it has been on me and how much of a necessity it really is until a short period ago.

My father has been in the military for over 20 years. Shortly after the war overseas began, he was deployed to Iraq to help fight the war against terrorism. My family has had to go through many changes to adapt to the lifestyle of not having my dad here with us.

Being without my dad for so long has made me more of a spiritual person and closer to God. I find myself praying to God more and thanking Him for even the littlest things in life that we take for granted.

There are many things that help me get through this time; one is knowing that I am not alone. Many of my friends' fathers have also gone to fight in the war in Iraq, and having people that are going through the same thing and understand your situation helps a lot. We send cards to the soldiers to let them know that we are always thinking about them.

During this period, I have also learned many things about myself. This experience has made me a very strong person, most of which I get from my mother. With all the thoughts and prayers for my dad, I know that he is safe in God's hands.

My faith has taught me to live life day by day, instead of always worrying about what the future holds. You have to take things in life as they come, and one way or another you will make it through.

I am always thinking about everything I am blessed to have in my life and don't take things for granted. This experience has taught me that even if I don't have anyone else around, God is always there to listen and help you through your journey of life.

(11/11/04)