Relief for those who are suffering

By KATHLEEN M. GALLAGHER- | Comments: 0 | Leave a comment

Bishop Edward B. Scharfenberger has declared Oct. 15-22, 2017, to be Mental Health Awareness Week in the Diocese of Albany. He is urging parishes to begin a conversation on this important topic.

It is a topic I know something about: My father struggled with severe depression and other anxiety disorders for much of his adult life. At times, they were absolutely paralyzing for him, rendering him incapable of performing the simplest of tasks.

As a child, I did not understand the depth of his suffering; I selfishly focused more on the inconveniences I had to endure, rather than the anguish of my father.

My memories are not pleasant: I recall rows and rows of pill bottles on my father's dresser and multiple hospitalizations. Following one round of electroshock therapy, the doctors told us that Dad might have some short-term memory loss; the next day, Dad forgot my name.

As a college student, I studied the behavioral sciences, perhaps in attempt to better understand my father and to atone for the way I had treated him. The knowledge I gained, together with maturity, has certainly benefitted me.

We could all use a greater awareness and a better understanding of mental illness. While treatment modalities have dramatically changed over the past 40 years (thank God), some of the stigma surrounding mental illness persists.

Persons living with the disease continue to be labeled, feared and isolated. They can be ridiculed, laughed at or discriminated against. The stigma will only be erased with understanding, patience and love.

In 2014, the New York State bishops issued a pastoral statement titled, "For I Am Lonely and Afflicted," urging compassion for those living with mental illness. In it, they ask a series of questions prompting us to examine our attitudes and our response to those who are suffering.

They ask us to look to the example of Jesus in the Gospels and to mirror His love and mercy for all.

Persons who suffer from mental illness are -- first and foremost -- persons. Each one is made in the image and likeness of God and deserves our care, attention and respect. Each person has inherent dignity and value.

As people of faith, we are called to welcome them, embrace them and include them in our parish, school and community activities. More than anything else, they need our acceptance, love and prayers.

When he was alive, my father always carried a crumpled prayer card in his front pants pocket. It was the prayer to St. Dymphna, patron saint of those who suffer from mental illness. Let us offer this prayer for those we may know who seek peace and liberation:

"Lord God, who has graciously chosen St. Dymphna to be the patroness of those afflicted with mental and nervous disorders, and has caused her to be an inspiration and a symbol of charity to the thousands who invoke her intercession, grant through the prayers of this pure, youthful martyr, relief and consolation to all who suffer from these disturbances, and especially to those for whom we now pray."

(Mrs. Gallagher is director of pro-life activities for the New York State Catholic Conference, which lobbies on behalf of the state's bishops. Read the New York bishops' pastoral statement on mental illness at www.nyscatholic.org.)[[In-content Ad]]