April 6, 2018 at 1:53 p.m.

Health aide's work includes lots of love


By KATE BLAIN- | Comments: 0 | Leave a comment

Janice Burke's dedication to the Sisters of Mercy may best be measured in Kleenex.

Throughout her quarter-century as a home health aide, first at the Mercy Sisters' Motherhouse and now at the Mercy-sponsored McAuley Residence in Albany, Mrs. Burke has watched for drugstore sales on Kleenex.

When prices go down, she stocks up. She knows how difficult it is for residents of McAuley, an assisted-living residence, to get out to buy simple supplies like Kleenex, so she often arrives at work toting bags of tissues. Without prodding from the Mercy Sisters in charge, she would never ask anyone to pay her back.

Signs of love

"Janice doesn't measure," explained Sister Rita Carr, RSM, activities director at McAuley. "She truly loves people."

"Yep, I do," Mrs. Burke herself added solemnly. "Especially older people."

Now celebrating 25 years as an aide, Mrs. Burke seems to have been born with that love. An Albany native, she was only a 10-year-old parishioner of St. Patrick's Church when she started volunteering at an Albany home for the aged run by the Little Sisters of the Poor.

BY the time she was in high school, Janice was skipping school just to spend more time feeding and bathing residents. "My heart was just there," she said simply.

Career of it

Naturally, she chose caregiving as a career. For two years, she worked nights as an aide -- until an acquaintance told her that the Sisters of Mercy were looking for someone to work in their Motherhouse's infirmary.

That was in 1973. Today, Mrs. Burke cares for some of the Mercy Sisters who supervised her in those early days and now live at McAuley: clothing and feeding them, taking them to church and doctor's appointments, playing bingo and creating crafts.

"I must have taken care of over 100-and-some sisters!" she boasted.

Final moments

Caring for the elderly and ill means that the aide has stood watch by many deathbeds. Some memories, like that of Sister Judy Goyette, still bring her to tears. Sister Judy died in Mrs. Burke's arms of multiple sclerosis while still a young woman.

"I laid on her chest and cried," Mrs. Burke remembered. "She was so close to my age."

Other deaths have inspired wonder. A favorite patient, Sister Mary Amabilis Michaels, used to teach Mrs. Burke about God. The aide loved to see the sister's pet bird, Perky, who sat on a Geri-chair tray to welcome visitors.

God with us

On the day Sister Amabilis died, Mrs. Burke was caring for her when the sister said, "God is in this room!" While the aide didn't think about the comment at the time, it occurred to her later that "she was trying to tell me, `God's always going to be there for you.' It inspired me to see God more in my life."

Knowing that many patients may die while in their care might cause some to choose another career, but Mrs. Burke said she enjoys being with the dying, especially praying with them.

"If you have God with you, it's easy to take care of them," she noted.

Happy day

Mrs. Burke married her husband, Jim, in 1980. While she is a parishioner of Our Lady of Mercy Church in Colonie, her choice of locale for the wedding was different: the Mercy Motherhouse chapel. Many Mercy sisters participated in the wedding, from lectoring to singing.

"Sister Bridget Kane helped me get dressed," Mrs. Burke recalled with a laugh. Because brides are often late for their weddings, "she wanted me to be late. I was saying, `I'm not going to be late!'"

However, the bride did take a few minutes to visit some friends: the sisters in the infirmary who were too ill to attend the wedding but wanted to see her in her gown.

Up from ashes

About 20 years of Mrs. Burke's service were spent at the Mercy Motherhouse, until a 1992 fire gutted the building and scattered the sisters who lived there among several nursing homes and hospitals. The aide recalled her initial shock at seeing the destroyed Motherhouse, but she said she went right to work bringing the sisters' medications to their new homes.

In 1995, Mrs. Burke came to McAuley Residence, a 48-bed building for retired Mercy Sisters, Holy Name sisters, clergy, and lay men and women. There, she met many old friends, including Sister Kathleen Nolan, RSM, once her supervisor, who had taught Mrs. Burke an important lesson a quarter-century before.

"I always put the sisters on a pedestal," the aide remembered. "She said to me, `Just because I'm a sister [doesn't mean I'm not] still human.'"

Close friends

While Mrs. Burke tries not to play favorites, her affection for one McAuley resident is evident: Sister Jerome Ford, RSM, has shared good times ranging from vacations in Hampton Beach, New Hampshire, to a special trip to Jack's Restaurant in Albany.

Mrs. Burke remembered her surprise when, on the way to a Bingo game, the elderly Sister Jerome asked to stop at the fancy restaurant, then yelled to the waiter, "We need some sandwiches. Hurry up!" The waiter complied.

Sister Jerome isn't quite as verbal as she once was; but when The Evangelist visited recently, she posed for photos with the aide she calls "my Janny" and still managed to protest at Mrs. Burke's promise to come into her room at 5 a.m.: "Oh, my God! Don't wake me up!"

Lifetime commitment

In January, Mrs. Burke celebrated her silver anniversary as an aide with a special Mass and reception. But it's obvious that her real joy is found not in partying, but in her work itself: In the resident who gave her a card and a kiss as she passed by on a recent workday...in the fellow aide who teased her about her newfound fame...in Holy Name Sister Margaret Tingle, who made sure to note that "Janice makes sure I have everything on my tray" at dinner.

"I'll be 53 this year," Mrs. Burke told The Evangelist. "I'm not even thinking about retirement. I feel that God gives me the strength to do what I have to do -- and it feels like a family to me, not a job."

Home health aides aren't paid much, but this one says she'll work for free: If she ever does retire, Mrs. Burke wants to come back as a volunteer.

Sister Rita answered affectionately: "We'll even save you a bed, when the time comes."

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